An Observation

Relationships have expiry dates folks. That's all there is to it, no ifs ands or buts. You either know each other till ye croak, or you fall away from each other. Such is the inevitable up of life that eventually begins to see the ground.

However, there will ALWAYS be those people, who desperately try to remedy this, like an old california lady with botox injected into every inch of her wrinkled ass, NOTHING can stop the nature of things. By that I mean life cycles. These are not fads, you can't try to run away from them, try to fix, there's very little that is actually forever. So why don't some people get this? Why are they CONSTANTLY driven to keep up old ties? Hmmm? I understand why in some cases, old friends you haven't seen in ages you want to catch up with, family members, I can see why you'd want to know them till you die. But in the name of CHRIST IN HEAVEN ABOVE, when a boyfriend girlfriend relationship is over, let it be OVER. Do not fucking linger there because you will inevitably drive each other insane. Furthermore than you managed to while dating.

"Oh I don't want you out of my life, oh we've known each other for so long, blah blah blah blah."
Yeah, that's right folks, when you're significant other starts busting out this line, you're up shit creek if you're too nice to tell em to fuck right off. Cause honestly, you'll hang out for months after the break up, she/he'll ask about the friends for months to come, you'll fuck once in a while and then the day will come when THE OTHER comes in. This being that person, or your replacement. But they'll still fucking insist on chilling here and there, and showing up at your friends parties with this other person. Despite the fact that you said when you broke up that if parties where going to be going on neither of you would be bringing any one new. Which really meant, I'm gonna chill with my friends and bring new people, cause they're not your friends you clingy fuck. But what's good for the goose is good for the gander. So they start bring that person right along.

Then the day will come when you're bro makes friends with this ex's new person and he brings both of them over to your house cause they're all buddy buddy and you'll come home wrecked, realize who's in your basement and that fantastic buzz is GONE, gone forever, as well as your sanity, and the need to be nice to this clingy life sucking dumbass who hasn't the faintest concept of what's going on with other people. I don't pity the stoopid, sure it's unfortunate they're so stoopid, however in everyone's life there's that point of realization, at least once. Till then, I've nothing but contempt for them....cause...well.....I'm not THAT forgiving a person.